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Scroll down to find the list of books.These books are all classified as Young Adult Romance Novels. They are appropriate for teens but also provide awesome reading for adults seeking romance novels that deal with real issues but shut the door on the most intimate of scenes.
A couple weeks ago, my I found myself trying to respond to a very interesting email. It was from a woman who came across my post Best New Adult Romance Novels and she was wondering if I could recommend any romance novels that would be appropriate for her 15 year old daughter.
This lead to a lot of thought on my part. The teenage years are such an interesting and exciting time. I remember all the questions, the exploration and experimentation, the colossal mistakes I still hope my mom never finds out about. I’m sure we can all think back to at least a few teenage blunders. It’s during those years that role models and healthy expectations become so important.
That first taste of freedom, starting to form an identity outside of your family of origin. Independence, being able to experience life on your own terms and not wanting to ask for help or seek guidance. Those years are about thinking you know everything, and being young enough to recover when you realize you don’t.
Time and time again I have mentioned my belief that authors have a responsibility to depict healthy relationships, safe behaviors and realistic expectations. Never is this more important than when they are writing for a young adult reader.
Let’s not kid ourselves, young people are learning about adult relationships from their peers and the internet. There is a lot of misinformation out ther. So if a young person wants to delve into the world of romance novels, I think it should certainly be encouraged. Especially if those books promote safe, healthy and realistic expectations in relationships.
What do I mean when I talk about safe, healthy and realistic expectations?
Well, for starters, I’m not going to give you a list of books that avoid important issues. Teenagers are faced with questions of consent, protection, abuse, eating disorders, depression, and body image issues, the threat of school shootings every single day. No doubt those issues impact the relationships a person of any age pursues and the behaviours they are willing to put up with.
If a book can take the scary and upsetting issues young people face every day and encourage healthy coping mechanisms I am all for it. If it can wrap everything up with a happily ever after, and throw a love story in the mix, it’s absolutely a winner in my world.
So I’ve looked high and low, searching Goodreads, taking into account the recommendations of other trusted reviewers and have have compiled list of romance novels that are appropriate for teenagers. When I say appropriate I mean the intimate scenes won’t make anyone blush. These books do still deal with uncomfortable and unpleasant topics.
What I’m trying to say is if I had teenagers I would encourage them to read these book. But, I would also suggest encouraging them to talk about the things they’re reading.
It’s 2002, a year after 9/11. It’s an extremely turbulent time politically, but especially so for someone like Shirin, a sixteen-year-old Muslim girl who’s tired of being stereotyped.
Shirin is never surprised by how horrible people can be. She’s tired of the rude stares, the degrading comments—even the physical violence—she endures as a result of her race, her religion, and the hijab she wears every day. Read More
You’ll make it out of here, Brian. I swear.
I had everything—school quarterback, popular with girls, and my dad was proud of me. I told myself it didn’t matter no one knew the real me. And then I nearly died. Landon saved my life. He’s the bravest guy I know. He came out a few years ago, proud and fierce, and he ran into gunfire to help others. Me, I’m a mess. Can’t even stand to be in a room with the curtains open. Read More
When star soccer player Peyton Rios receives an offer from her first-choice college, senior year starts off exactly as planned. But when Peyton uncovers her boyfriend’s dark secret, she confronts him―and finds herself falling down a flight of stairs. Peyton’s knee―and maybe her dream of going pro―is shattered. Everyone is talking: Was she pushed, or did she fall? Peyton knows the truth, even if no one believes her. Read More
ELEANOR & PARK
by Rainbow Rowell
328 Pages | St. Martin’s Press | February 26, 2013
Stella Grant likes to be in control—even though her totally out of control lungs have sent her in and out of the hospital most of her life. At this point, what Stella needs to control most is keeping herself away from anyone or anything that might pass along an infection and jeopardize the possibility of a lung transplant. Six feet apart. No exceptions.
The only thing Will Newman wants to be in control of is getting out of this hospital. Read More
Each year, eight beautiful girls are chosen as Paper Girls to serve the king. It’s the highest honor they could hope for…and the most cruel.
But this year, there’s a ninth girl. And instead of paper, she’s made of fire.
In this lush fantasy, Lei is a member of the Paper caste, the lowest and most oppressed class in Ikhara. She lives in a remote village with her father, where the decade-old trauma of watching her mother snatched by royal guards still haunts her. Read More
At first, Jude and her twin brother Noah, are inseparable. Noah draws constantly and is falling in love with the charismatic boy next door, while daredevil Jude wears red-red lipstick, cliff-dives, and does all the talking for both of them. Years later, they are barely speaking. Something has happened to change the twins in different yet equally devastating ways . . . but then Jude meets an intriguing, irresistible boy and a mysterious new mentor. Read More
Despite the tumor-shrinking medical miracle that has bought her a few years, Hazel has never been anything but terminal, her final chapter inscribed upon diagnosis. But when a gorgeous plot twist named Augustus Waters suddenly appears at Cancer Kid Support Group, Hazel’s story is about to be completely rewritten.Read More
What are your thoughts on romance and tough subject in Young Adult Romance Novels and Young Adult books in general?